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My hobbies include most sports (especially the 'extreme' ones such as parachuting, snow-boarding, skateboarding, mountain-biking, hangliding, rock climbing, roller-blading, potholing and parascending -- my parents drew the line at base jumping, though), Football (soccer to those from the other side of the pond), Land Rovers and computers. As you can see I'm just your average 14-year-old nutter. My musical tastes are 'varied' to say the least - I especially like the Prodigy, Hanson (of course!), Mike Oldfield, and even a limited amount of classical stuff (mainly Holst - his planets suite has some really moving parts in it). I also play* the bass guitar and the drums if I'm forced to. (* Please note you could quite easily replace the word play with make a noise with, or, more likely, annoy people with.) I attend a co-ed boarding school on the Derbyshire / Staffordshire border. There are about 200 pupils ranging from 10 - 18 in about a 4:3 boy:girl ratio - yeah, hormones there are raging, but they all seem to be raging for the opposite sex which is annoying as hell. Ho hum... The good part is, however, it's a very "outward bound" school - outdoor education is a timetabled "lesson" for forms one to three (10 - 14 y/o) and plenty of trips such as walks, potholing, orienteering, abseiling, gorge-scrambling and climbing are regularly put on for our mutual enntertainment for anyone who wants to go. The school also has a full working farm which is completely run by the pupils, mostly those taking a GCSE or 'A' level in Agriculture and / or Biology. Personally, I think it stinks and stay as far away from there as possible... As for my sexuality - well, as far as I'm concerned I'm gay,
AND I'M NOW OUT AND PROUD!! If anyone who knows me personally's
reading this - IT'S TRUE!! As good a way to come
out as any, I suppose I'm 5'7" tall (just measured myself again...) and weigh about 8 stone. I have shoulder length brown hair that simply refuses to stay anywhere I want it and hazel-coloured eyes. I suppose you could say I'm fairly well built - typical soccer player's body - and am permanantly horny. Then again, do you know anyone my age who isn't gagging for it? No. Thought not...
Anyway, here's that FAQ thingy I promised. The majority of these (so far) have come from four "rounds" of e-mail sessions between me and Greg (you know who you are!). By publishing these, hope you'll get a slightly better idea of who I am... What is your favourite colour? Ermmm, most shades of blue Serious or or silly? Serious: A decent spaghetti bolognaise.
Silly: Green wine gums! What is your favourite drink? Tie between Sprite and Mountain Dew Hmmm... Eddie Furlong (of course!!) , Segourney Weaver (mainly
because she was so good in the Alien films), Bruce Willis and
Adam Rickett (Nicky Platt from Coronation Street) Go and kiss the cute kid that's just moved in "next
door" (i.e. less than a mile away). He's my age, sandy
blonde shoulder lenght hair and really dazzling blue eyes...
<sigh> (I wrote this before I really got to know Lee!!) Ermmm - tough one, this... I suppose after buying myself a
Kilostream line to the internet (one of my must-haves). I'd like
to try to do something to encourage "kids like me" to
express themselves a bit more: Provide a shoulder to cry on for
those that want it, and activities and meetings around the
country. Idealistic I know, but I can't honestly think of
anything I'd rather spend my money on! I'm fairly easy to
please... At school, I generally hang around with my mates, play a bit of
Badminton, kick a football around or write. At home, I tend to
prat around with my computer, go blading (usually for hours on
end - quite good thinking time!), read, listen to music, and
write. Eddie Furlong (the way he looked in T2, anyway), Adam Rickett,
and, of course, ANY HANSON!! (Tay in particular...) Boxers - almost every colour and pattern under the sun! Innie. Right handed for most tasks except for, well, if you've read my
stories you'll know what and why.... It'd have to be New Zealand. My cousin's been over there recently
and from what he's said and the pictures I've seen, it sounds as
if the lifestyle'd suit me down to the ground!! Now this is a toughie - I think it'd have to be being able to
fly. I've only ever flown a few times (usually in a glider or
microlite) and love the sense of freedom and perspective you get.
Some people feel close to nature when they go walking - I feel it
whenever I'm in the air... Ermmm - probably during a school play last term when I was back
stage on a small gantry stage left. I grabbed onto what I thought
was a pole for support - It was actually a rope and I swung onto
the stage Tarzan-like and broadsided the lead actor, much to the
amusement of the 500-strong audience! Fairly pale at the moment - I tend to get a real good tan during
the summer but it fades as quick as hell (within a couple of
weeks) so in the winter I always look a bit pastey! I've got a pair of almost exactly paralell lines about an inch
and a half long and about a quarter of an inch apart at a
forty-five degree angle on the back of my left shoulderblade. Apart from the obvious?! Ermmm, strangely enough, my fingers!
I've heard of toe-fettishes, but my fingers feal real good to me!
(although I've never sucked my thumb...) Probably my legs. It's the only part of me that I feel I've done
a fairly good job with! Being a soccer player helps no end... The thought of sex in / through / with boxers and / or briefs! I'm not ultra-experienced in the dating game, but it'd have to be
something really romantic - like a couple of rounds of paintball,
good junk-food meal (McDonalds or such) followed by a movie then
a "quiet" evening... I'm one of these semi brain-dead people who'll watch TV for the
sake of it, but DayTime TV is a no-no... Fave programmes are
probably "The X-Files", "Third Rock from the
Sun", anything MTV, "The Simpsons" and Cartoon
Network's "Cow and Chicken". Hanson, Mike Oldfield, Holst, Dire Straits, Prodigy, Holst,
Adiemus, Crowded House, Luc Besson, and a touch of The Shadows.
(Did I mention Hanson?!) The "Back to the Future" trilogy, Terminator, Liar Liar
(in fact anything Jim Carrey) and anything else along that
genre... Tall, dark and hansome Shit, moderately long greasy hair (long greasy hair is
understandable, short greasy hair is undetectable...) Enno,
_Really_ fat blokes (see Enno), the idea of animals as sexual
partners (see Enno), and anything vaguely Enno-like! Has to be everything below the waist. Legs, arses, and to a
certain extent, feet. 1 - To meet Tay Hanson and tell him how I fealt, regardless of
his reaction. I just want him to know, and I'll love him
forever... 2 - That I could be with Lee (my boyfriend as of a couple of days
ago) all the time 3 - That people would be a little more open-minded about
"our sort"... Boxers and a T-shirt Coming out. Definitely. The shere weight of deception was
screwing me in the head badly - I couldn't talk to people easily
and my (usually fairly good) grades were sliding to the wrong
side of crap... I needed to do something, and that was the
blanket solution to the majority of my problems in the long
run... Ermm - now that I gave myself the kick up the arse to come out, I
wish I'd done it sooner. Not, like, years ago - perhaps 9 - 12
months - it would've made life a lot easier... Ermm, Mark Knopfler from Dire Straits (how the hell can you play the guitar like that??) |
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