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My hobbies include most sports (especially the 'extreme' onessuch as parachuting, snow-boarding, skateboarding,mountain-biking, hangliding, rock climbing, roller-blading,potholing and parascending -- my parents drewthe line at base jumping, though), Football (soccer to those from the other sideof the pond), Land Rovers and computers. As you can see I'm justyour average 14-year-old nutter. My musical tastes are 'varied' to say the least - I especiallylike the Prodigy, Hanson (of course!),Mike Oldfield, and even a limited amount of classical stuff(mainly Holst - his planets suite has some really moving parts init). I also play* the bass guitar and the drums if I'm forced to.(* Please note you could quite easily replace the word playwith make a noise with, or, more likely, annoypeople with.) I attend a co-ed boarding school on the Derbyshire /Staffordshire border. There are about 200 pupils ranging from 10- 18 in about a 4:3 boy:girl ratio - yeah, hormones there areraging, but they all seem to be raging for the oppositesex which is annoying as hell. Ho hum... The good part is,however, it's a very "outward bound" school - outdooreducation is a timetabled "lesson" for forms one tothree (10 - 14 y/o) and plenty of trips such as walks, potholing,orienteering, abseiling, gorge-scrambling and climbing areregularly put on for our mutual enntertainment for anyone whowants to go. The school also has a full working farm which iscompletely run by the pupils, mostly those taking a GCSE or 'A'level in Agriculture and / or Biology. Personally, I think itstinks and stay as far away from there as possible... As for my sexuality - well, as far as I'm concerned I'm gay,AND I'M NOW OUT AND PROUD!! If anyone who knows me personally'sreading this - IT'S TRUE!! As good a way to comeout as any, I suppose I'm 5'7" tall (just measured myself again...) and weighabout 8 stone. I have shoulder length brown hair that simply refusesto stay anywhere I want it and hazel-coloured eyes. I suppose youcould say I'm fairly well built - typical soccer player's body -and am permanantly horny. Then again, do you know anyone my agewho isn't gagging for it? No. Thought not...
Anyway, here's that FAQ thingy I promised. The majority ofthese (so far) have come from four "rounds" of e-mailsessions between me and Greg (you know who you are!). Bypublishing these, hope you'll get a slightly better idea of who Iam... What is your favourite colour? Ermmm, most shades of blue Serious or or silly? Serious: A decent spaghetti bolognaise.Silly: Green wine gums! What is your favourite drink? Tie between Sprite and Mountain Dew Hmmm... Eddie Furlong (of course!!) , Segourney Weaver (mainlybecause she was so good in the Alien films), Bruce Willis andAdam Rickett (Nicky Platt from Coronation Street) Go and kiss the cute kid that's just moved in "nextdoor" (i.e. less than a mile away). He's my age, sandyblonde shoulder lenght hair and really dazzling blue eyes...<sigh> (I wrote this before I really got to know Lee!!) Ermmm - tough one, this... I suppose after buying myself aKilostream line to the internet (one of my must-haves). I'd liketo try to do something to encourage "kids like me" toexpress themselves a bit more: Provide a shoulder to cry on forthose that want it, and activities and meetings around thecountry. Idealistic I know, but I can't honestly think ofanything I'd rather spend my money on! I'm fairly easy toplease... At school, I generally hang around with my mates, play a bit ofBadminton, kick a football around or write. At home, I tend toprat around with my computer, go blading (usually for hours onend - quite good thinking time!), read, listen to music, andwrite. Eddie Furlong (the way he looked in T2, anyway), Adam Rickett,and, of course, ANY HANSON!! (Tay in particular...) Boxers - almost every colour and pattern under the sun! Innie. Right handed for most tasks except for, well, if you've read mystories you'll know what and why.... It'd have to be New Zealand. My cousin's been over there recentlyand from what he's said and the pictures I've seen, it sounds asif the lifestyle'd suit me down to the ground!! Now this is a toughie - I think it'd have to be being able tofly. I've only ever flown a few times (usually in a glider ormicrolite) and love the sense of freedom and perspective you get.Some people feel close to nature when they go walking - I feel itwhenever I'm in the air... Ermmm - probably during a school play last term when I was backstage on a small gantry stage left. I grabbed onto what I thoughtwas a pole for support - It was actually a rope and I swung ontothe stage Tarzan-like and broadsided the lead actor, much to theamusement of the 500-strong audience! Fairly pale at the moment - I tend to get a real good tan duringthe summer but it fades as quick as hell (within a couple ofweeks) so in the winter I always look a bit pastey! I've got a pair of almost exactly paralell lines about an inchand a half long and about a quarter of an inch apart at aforty-five degree angle on the back of my left shoulderblade. Apart from the obvious?! Ermmm, strangely enough, my fingers!I've heard of toe-fettishes, but my fingers feal real good to me!(although I've never sucked my thumb...) Probably my legs. It's the only part of me that I feel I've donea fairly good job with! Being a soccer player helps no end... The thought of sex in / through / with boxers and / or briefs! I'm not ultra-experienced in the dating game, but it'd have to besomething really romantic - like a couple of rounds of paintball,good junk-food meal (McDonalds or such) followed by a movie thena "quiet" evening... I'm one of these semi brain-dead people who'll watch TV for thesake of it, but DayTime TV is a no-no... Fave programmes areprobably "The X-Files", "Third Rock from theSun", anything MTV, "The Simpsons" and CartoonNetwork's "Cow and Chicken". Hanson, Mike Oldfield, Holst, Dire Straits, Prodigy, Holst,Adiemus, Crowded House, Luc Besson, and a touch of The Shadows.(Did I mention Hanson?!) The "Back to the Future" trilogy, Terminator, Liar Liar(in fact anything Jim Carrey) and anything else along thatgenre... Tall, dark and hansome Shit, moderately long greasy hair (long greasy hair isunderstandable, short greasy hair is undetectable...) Enno,_Really_ fat blokes (see Enno), the idea of animals as sexualpartners (see Enno), and anything vaguely Enno-like! Has to be everything below the waist. Legs, arses, and to acertain extent, feet. 1 - To meet Tay Hanson and tell him how I fealt, regardless ofhis reaction. I just want him to know, and I'll love himforever... 2 - That I could be with Lee (my boyfriend as of a couple of daysago) all the time 3 - That people would be a little more open-minded about"our sort"... Boxers and a T-shirt Coming out. Definitely. The shere weight of deception wasscrewing me in the head badly - I couldn't talk to people easilyand my (usually fairly good) grades were sliding to the wrongside of crap... I needed to do something, and that was theblanket solution to the majority of my problems in the longrun... Ermm - now that I gave myself the kick up the arse to come out, Iwish I'd done it sooner. Not, like, years ago - perhaps 9 - 12months - it would've made life a lot easier... Ermm, Mark Knopfler from Dire Straits (how the hell can you playthe guitar like that??) |
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